Sex & Culture

On Submission, Strong Women & the High Alpha Male: My response to the assertion that women are biologically pre-disposed towards submission, just as dominance is the right of men.

Unbearably Sexy: On my visceral sexual response to the image of a perceived dynamic and where I would wish to fit in it.

On Complicity: (TW – rape, assault, public shaming) On the difficult balance between victim-blaming and ownership.

The Joy of Sucking Cock: On the emphasis mainstream media places on performance over pleasure.

Trigger: (TW – abuse and recovery)

On the Value of Fantasies: On the ongoing value fantasies have on the development and enjoyment of one’s sexuality.

On Virginity, or A Case For Not Throwing It Away: In favor of waiting, though not for the reasons you make think.

Beautiful, Joyful Porn: On the glory of feminist, boutique and unconventional porn sites.

The Myth of One True Self – On the illusion of a static self, and the misplaced value we place in that assumption. (Featuring illustrative photographs).

Death and the Maiden – On the inevitable tie between sex and death, and how it continues to resonate.

Femme Fatales & Dames – On female archetypes and the role they played in my sexual identity as I developed.

On Slate’s Sexual History Calculator: An unapologetic rant against the notion that the number of partners you’ve had is actually relevant.

Going Down: On oral sex, my first time and the blowjob spectrum.

In Praise of Feminine Things (A Rant): Loving lipstick, heels and lingerie doesn’t make you a tool of the patriarchy.

Ownership: On Sexuality & Feminine Relations: Ohe reflexive sense of sexual competition women feel in relation to one another, and how damaging it can be.

On Guilt & Pleasure: On the function of guilt in pleasure.

On Hang Ups: On those things that you just won’t do…maybe.

Eva Green’s Breast: On the hypocrisy of the MPAA’s ruling against Eva Green’s image in marketing material for Sin City 2.

In Praise of Vibrators: The title says it all.

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